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Getting Affected By Negativity

Blogged By: Low Hang Wei @ October 16th, 2007 - 2:08 am

I hate to admit it, but I have been bombarded by tons of negative thoughts recently. The negative thoughts piled onto one another, gathered together and started pushing me away from my goals, the very goals that I knew I can achieve if I held the correct mindset. My studies and my production as an adviser are just not showing any ideal results. While I have achieved my academic goals of hitting Dean’s list for a year and do not mind if I really do get bad grades, having good results to show as a Financial Adviser is very important to me. I had a good start initially and was one of the better producers in my batch for the first month, but somehow the momentum was lost.

I cannot afford to let negativity consume me, yet I have adopted a very cowardly attitude towards life recently… running away from reality by indulging in games all day long. I don’t like this feeling of finding myself useless, therefore I’m writing this post as a reminder to myself to wake up. I’m a grown-up and adults should not have to find excuses for their lack of results. As a student and financial adviser, my colleagues always help me to find excuses for my lack of cases. However, I know that I can achieve even more than a full-time adviser if I set my mind to do it.

I have the knowledge, the integrity, the skills, the qualifications and my looks are not bad… I should be able to achieve much more. From this moment, I remind myself of my goals as a financial adviser. I urge myself to do well in the industry even as a part-time adviser for my existing clients, my agency leaders, my family and myself. Of course, even my future prospects that I know will benefit more if they are my clients rather than someone else’s client.

I look forward to seeing more cases like one of my existing clients who chose to commit to a policy with me, rather than with his friend of six years, because of the professionalism I exhibit. I know I can achieve much more and I know that visitors to my blog are also looking forward to seeing me succeed in all areas of my life. I will fight for the day when I can finally proclaim “I can do it, so can you!”

Watch me sprint towards my goal towards the year end and don’t forget… pray for me.

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3 Responses to “Getting Affected By Negativity”

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    Richard Wilson Says:

    Try buying a few books on positive attitude. Mark your top 15-20 favorite pages and read those every morning for 30 days. I also write out my goals each morning. Both of these exercises take me under 30 minutes and energize me all day long.

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    Low Hang Wei Says:

    Hi Richard,

    That sounds so much like what Simpleology by Mark Joyner preaches. I also believe in it, but I’m lacking in the discipline department. I’ll be working hard to keep up. :)

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    Geargina Says:

    Hey ya, once awhile such thoughts do set in. It is perfectly normal. Still knowing you, you will stand up once again real soon.

    Jia You! And stay True to youself =)

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